WMD: Weapons of Massive Delight!

 

The overwhelming majority of us here understand - all too well - the not-so-subtle message contained in today's title here. The images of the magnificent manhoods (emerging erections) featured are, to those of us who are versatile or are exclusively beta-men (bottom-men), know for a fact to be tools of gratification and satisfaction!

One common myth (stereotype) about the male penis is that "sixe matters." In reality. nothing could be further from the truth. A flaccid (relaxed) cock is by itself appealing, attractive and imaginative (just the thought of what it might feel like inside you). Once it begins to grow with anticipation, excitement and stimulation, the erection assumes a driving force all by itself. The pleasure potential is enormous - as is often the result with the anatomical instrument! 

Let's face it: once the penis is at the erection stage, there is really no question about size. It is labelled an "erection" because that's the only way to describe it! Hard and firm! 

Flaccid penises are wonderful and I don't believe that there are any of us who would deny this fact.

Often viewed as a special gift for bisexual and gay men that is "heaven sent!"

Erect and exposed? Who can turn their eyes away from that extraordinary picture? All I want to do when I see the above image is turn around and surrender my tantalized ass! 

Inside or outside, an erection offers us all a desire to take it inside us, either anally (fucking) or orally (sucking)! We aim to please the alpha-man (top-man) for all that he's worth!

An open invitation to take it in and make yourself a complete and total man! 

"Commando style" (wearing no underwear) makes no difference as it only focuses attention on the progress and final size of the erection we're facing!

Our concentrated desire is still on our potential partner's growing muscular erection and the erotic sensations that we'll derive from that penetration!

Plus the energetic and ecstatic we'll attain and experience when we welcome that masculine anatomical delivery inside our anxious and deserving buttocks!

As the beta-man, we simply need to remember to stretch our ass wide open and receive our well deserved and well earned reward: the enlarged manhood we humbly seek!

The above sentiment is a reminder that there is no shame in our sexual position!

Usually play the best and hardest!

Versatility matters, guys! Be cool!

Rashad Keith Cuffee

 

  

 

Beaux Banks And Me!

 

Beaux Banks choke-hold fucked by Phoenix Fellington

By his own public disclosure, Beaux Banks proudly confirms that he is a virtually exclusive gay sexual 

bottom-man! That makes he and I both confident and proud to share similar roles in our gay sexual preference. We're two men committed to the same sexual dynamic and thrill - a hard, hot, huge and energetic erection thrusting inside our deep and willing anus (buttocks)!

Beaux: choke-hold #1

However, there are several differences in our sexual experiences. Beaux readily admits to being a sexual top-man only once in his entire life - back when he was an undergraduate in college. Whereas I was an exclusive same gender loving sexual top-man for the first 10 - 11 years of my life! Only when I entered my late twenties did I evolve in the sexual flip-flop from exclusive top-man to exclusive bottom-man! 

Beaux: choke-hold #2

We both have another similarity. Neither one of us has ever had the desire, dream, notion or opportunity to be sexually active with a person of the female gender. From early adolescence until the present, we've both known and understood our physical attraction to men. It was never a problem for Beaux. It was never a problem for me. Neither one of us has felt any guilt or shame over being same gender loving men! 

Beaux has only been intimately interactive with gay men. I, on the other hand, have been intimate with both bisexual and gay men. 

Beaux: choke-hold #3

Obviously, Beaux Banks has no issue with his partner's hands grasping his neck in a choke-hold grip. It isn't a major concern for me, personally. However, my all-time favorite sexual position is to be bottom-man-on-top! I'd rather "ride" my partner's erection and allow him deep inside me as possible! I like watching his facial expression when he ejaculates (cums) inside me!

Another similarity we both have in common is our interracial heritage. Beaux was raised by his adoptive parents and is a mixture of African-American, Asian and Caucasian. I am a of one Greek parent and one Nigerian parent. 

Versatility matters, guys! Be cool!

Rashad Keith Cuffee

 

Relaxation Rewards!

 

One of the often acclaimed benefits of analingus or rimming is the relaxed access to the sexual bottom-man's anus. The top-man gains entry and the bottom usually experiences only mild discomfort as he adjusts to the intrusion into his anus. This represents unlimited joy and satisfaction for both partners!  

Of course, the bottom-man enjoys the sensation of having his prostate massaged and stimulated by his top-man's thrusting and surging erection! This provides the enormous thrills that bottom-men receive from being fucked! Once that experience happened for me, I was a fully-converted exclusive bottom-man in order to relive that sensation as often as possible! 

Initially, I was very concerned about the size and length of the cock that was about to fuck me. However, the more experienced that I have achieved has taught me that both communication and the physical relaxation of my sphincter muscle (through analingus or rimming) has enhanced and allowed me almost concern-free status over any erection that wants to enter inside me!

The sexual act or fucking is beyond a doubt the absolute reward for analingus or rimming. The benefits are enjoyed by both the bottom-man as well as the top-man. Both are permitted to release their frustrations and tensions in performing the sexual joys and pleasures, irregardless of their sexual position. This reward makes all the effort to achieve it completely worthwhile!

Versatility matters, guys! Be cool!

Rashad Keith Cuffee

RIMMING-fication: Part 1

 

As porn-star Sean Xavier demonstrates above, the act of rimming or widely known as analingus is the act of orally pleasing the anus (entrance to the anal cavity). The stimulation offered is more than likely from the tongue, lips and mouth in order to relax the partner's sphincter muscles that expand to permit the insertion of the erect penis for sexual engagement. 

Rimming or analingus is not an exclusive sexual practice between same gender loving (bisexual or gay) men. It is also enjoyed and practiced by heterosexuals as well. Many people do incorrectly believe it to be an activity enjoyed only by queer (gay or bisexual) men. 

A blindfold isn't necessary for rimming. It is merely an accessory used by the bottom-man in this scenario solely for entertainment. 

Above, the bottom-man indicates his willingness to have his ass/buttocks serviced to relax him before he is to be fucked.

As he's wearing a blindfold (again, not a requirement), he hears someone approaches and orally encourages his top-man to come to him.

His top-man enters and surveys the scene on the bed. Perhaps this is their first sexual encounter together. 

Our top-man begins to make his presence and his needs known to our receptive and willing bottom-man. They commence their engagement foreplay. All attention given to our bottom-man's anatomy is most welcome!

The use of the hands in this foreplay is often misunderstood. It isn't an element of rimming, as that is limited to simply oral stimulation. The use of the hands (slapping) or fingers is better known as manual stimulation.  

Using his thumb, the top-man begins massaging/stimulating his bottom-man's buttocks crevice and his anal entrance. 

The above shows us the use of the mouth and tongue in caressing the back of the bottom-man. Keep in mind that these caresses may help him relax but it still is not analingus or rimming. 

The oral attention offered to the bottom-man's ass/buttocks is most definitely analingus or rimming. It is the stimulation given below that helps to "open-up" or relax the anal cavity. The top-man renders this service in order for his erection to ease into his bottom-man for the ultimate delight of them both! 

A man's tongue titillates the anal lip (opening) of a bottom-man's ass as that action alone sends the thrill throughout his body! This thrilling sensation greatly helps the bottom-man to relax his sphincter muscle which in turn significantly reduces the risk of pain and allows to top-man to comfortably insert his erect cock into the bottom-man's ass!

Versatility matters, guys! Be cool!

Rashad Keith Cuffee

 

Intimate Intensity!

The scene above is the exact reason today's posting has this title: Intimate Intensity. An examination of the fucking the top man is delivering to his partner shows the serious intensity of his intentions and his labors. Top-man remains in direct eye-contact with his bottom-man and never wavers from his stare. His mission is to flood his partner's willing ass with all the cum (semen) he can muster! 

His thrusts inside his man's buttocks are deliberate, precise and consistent. He wants the both of them to achieve a climax that is both extraordinary and pleasing. The sole purpose of their interactions here are for their joint physical satisfaction and to make these efforts memorable. 

One of the tremendous advantages of this sexual positioning is that it offers to both the top-man and to the bottom-man the benefits of eye-to-eye contact. This connection enhances the physical and sexual pleasure that both men appreciate and enjoy. It gives to them the immense satisfaction that they both exhibit through their eyes as well as other sensory messages!

Versatility matters, guys! Be cool!

Rashad Keith Cuffee

My Early Porn Memories! Part 2

 

The man in the picture above is Treshawn, the very first "love of my life" from my first summer of viewing my older brother's pornography collection. Treshawn caught my eye in a Bacchus released VHS tape. Actually, the two depicted here, Treshawn and his co-star are from the actual VHS tape that my brother gave to me. I can avidly recall their scene together.Treshawn in his earliest roles in same gender loving pornograhy was frequently cast in the top-man positions in films. He had a few problems performing as a top-man in front of the camera and in the scenario depicted here, his co-star (resting on his chest, above) actually rolled him over onto his stomach and entered Treshawn's buttocks and fucked him relentlessly and religiously! 

That scene was an eye-opener because Treshawn emerged as one of the earliest versatile gay pornography stars. He would readily take on either sexual role and if it didn't suit him, he would - in front of the camera - offer his ass to his co-star and then coax the partner into complying. I do remember one film in which the exclusive bottom-man, Ricky Parker (see last week's posting) actually fucked Treshawn and they both ejaculated in front of the camera!I was very much impressed with Treshawn the first time that my brother shared his VHS with me. I read an interview Treshawn gave in Black Inches porn magazine in which he thoroughly discussed the scene that I discussed above. Treshawn openly admitted that he was gay in an age when the majority of Black man-to-man sex stars only acknowledged being bisexual. Treshawn's logic for his public disclosure of his sexual orientation was simple: "If the movie is targeting a gay audience, then why should I deny being a gay man? 

Above is one of the few films that Treshawn was featured on the cover of the VHS tape. It is also one of the few films that he performed in with a White sexual partner. In this particular case, he was a featured versatile man! He served as a bottom in one episode and then as the top in another! 

This past summer, I was able to purchase this DVD from a gay DVD company. It is a remake of the one in which Treshawn starred in back in 1997. I remain firmly (pun intended) convinced and impressed with Treshawn's acting abilities, skills and talent. Despite the trends of our current styles, Treshawn deserves our admiration and respect as one of the very early "champions" of versatility!  In the above film, Treshawn portrays a government investigator engaged in "investigating" Big Blue. He allows his co-star to fuck him with all of his might!This awareness about sexual fluidity and versatility enriched my admiration, appreciation and gratitude for Treshawn not only as a male same gender loving (bisexual or gay) actor but also into the significance of doing my upmost to assist in satisfying my partner's physical and sexual needs. It offered me early insight into the variety of skills and talents available to us all to engage and share with one another. His versatility made me conscious of the fact that we, as same gender loving men, were not automatically locked into one sexual position or another!Thank you, Treshawn! Great sex, man! Love ya!Versatility matters, guys! Be cool!Rashad Keith Cuffee

This series, My Early Porn Memories continues next week, Sunday, November 29, 2020. 

My Early Porn Memories! Part 1

When I first became aware of my same gender attraction and what it meant, I was in middle school. I was also in a better position than the majority of my friends and peers. My oldest brother is also gay (same gender loving) and had "come out" to my brothers and my parents the previous summer. This offered me a very distinct advantage: access to gay porn entertainment!I soon learned of my elder brother's private collection of man-to-man sex VHS tapes during his return home for the summer holiday. He approached me asking if I had any concerns or questions about his being gay. I shared with him my own realization that I could possibly be the very same way. 

This gave him the chance to introduce me to his collection of pornography and helped to prepare me for my own personal journey into the "Porn-world!" I remember my "meeting" of the then gay adult superstar Bobby Blake and his cast of fellow pornstars (and bottom-men) such as J. C. Carter, and Ricky Parker - just to name a few - as well as numerous others. It also served in informing me of the two optional sex positions available to gay (same gender loving) men: bottom-man and top-man! This visual lesson proved itself invaluable to me both then and in the future!   

The above picture is one of Bobby Blake, bald, Black and fully erect! His pierced nipples always encouraged other men to focus on his slightly hairy chest - a relatively new attraction for many men, no matter what race! 

Immediately above, Bobby Blake is shown with one of his co-stars, Bam, another male top-man who is also bald and known for his own pride in his armpit hair! 

The above photo is one of J. C. Carter, a notorious bottom-man who enthusiastically submitted his buttocks for Bobby Blake's generous erection time and time again! J. C. Carter lived in Chicago and once, many years later, I had the honor of meeting him in person and not in front of a video-camera (although I would have no problem in affording him the chance to fuck my ass)! 

The above two illustrations are of an avid bottom-man. Ricky Parker! Another who gratefully gave his ass to Bobby Blake (and any other man with a willing erection)! Ricky Parker became known as a bottom-man who was energetic in his sexual appetite of having a man's manhood inside him! In my conversion from an exclusive top-man to a versatile bottom-man, I was able to recall Ricky Parker's endless role-model as a very early bottom-man advocate and employ some of his strategic movements in my own situation. Truth to the adage that we don't always forget early lessons in life! 

One of the discoveries that I made that first summer that my newly "out" older gay brother taught me through his collection of same gender loving pornography was the concept of rimming - eating out a bottom-man's ass - in order to prepare him for the entry of an erection. This ideal enables the bottom-man to relax his sphincter muscle so as to better receive the firm penis inside. Without this valuable lesson, I doubt that I would have enjoyed my success as a top-man when I initially became sexually active. The same lessons from my years viewing J. C. Carter and Ricky Parker as prime examples served me well when I later evolved from an exclusive top-man into my current role as a versatile bottom-man!Being introduced to male same gender loving films prior to my acknowledging that this was indeed me gave me some insight into the world of gay sexual practices. I no longer had to imagine how two or more men could be intimate and pleasing to one another. Having an older brother who had already "come out" of his closet and was patient and willing to answer any questions was a terrific incentive to pursue my own ambitions, desires and urgings!Thanks to all of you for your role-modeling the sex positions!Versatility matters, guys! Be cool!Rashad Keith Cuffee

This series, My Early Porn Memories continues next Sunday, Novemeber 22, 2020.