Three way sexual hookups can be fun, exciting and a perfect way to add some spice and variety into a one-on-one relationship. It is important to communicate to your partner that you'd like to open your relationship and, if he's agreeable, allow him to meet the third person beforehand. If they seem to be compatible, then discuss who takes what role (top, bottom, etc.) and set a date, time and place for the encounter to happen. Don't neglect talking about where the sex-capades take place (bedroom, balcony, backseat of a car, etc). Also, will any sex-toys be used? Think about all the details, nothing spoils a three-some more than an unwilling (or two) parties involved.
All set? Not yet! Before the "3-Way Date" takes place, it is essential that the supply of fresh condoms and lube is checked and replenished. True, PrEP is now available but remember, the guidelines state that it is to be used "in combination with" other protocols to reduce chances of HIV transmission. But wait, there are
other sexually transmitted infections
out there and condoms significantly reduce the risk for those in addition to HIV. And anyone who has ever
bottomed (been fucked) before knows nothing heightens the sexual pleasure of taking an FHC up the ass (buttocks) more than a well-lubricated FHC!
Once the bedroom supplies have been stockpiled, now we're ready and set for the festivities to begin. As the partners arrive, welcome them and show them where to strip out of their clothes and to store them. I always enjoy having us all sit around, bare-assed naked with snacks and a beverage and relax before we all jump on each other's erections. A "ice-breaker" if you will. A social interaction.
No matter how bad we need and want to have sex, it is equally crucial to remember our manners and to be nice and considerate. As much as I like to get fucked rough (and hard and deep), my ass is not a freeway with no speed limit. There are some "rules of the road." No matter how much a man wants to "tear my ass up!"
And no matter how badly I may want him to feed me his cock, all rough and hard, it is, after all my ass! It's not the Indy 500, men. Let's have a little respect and some consideration. That's all I'm saying. Ram me all you want, but first start out sort of slow and easy - please! Then you can hit me with your super-sized monster cock!
Versatility matters, guys! Be proud!
Keith Cuffee
