Going Hard!

 

One of the many benefits of being an almost exclusive bottom-man (beta-man) is knowing exactly when to just spread your legs and let your current top-man (alpha-man) have his way deep and hard inside you! Remember, it is far better to surrender your bussy (boy+pussy) and let your man drive you into certain ecstasy...

before you roll-over again and receive his glory again, and again and then for another triumph!

Versatility matters, guys! Be cool!

Rashad Keith Cuffie

WMD: Weapons of Massive Delight!

 

The overwhelming majority of us here understand - all too well - the not-so-subtle message contained in today's title here. The images of the magnificent manhoods (emerging erections) featured are, to those of us who are versatile or are exclusively beta-men (bottom-men), know for a fact to be tools of gratification and satisfaction!

One common myth (stereotype) about the male penis is that "sixe matters." In reality. nothing could be further from the truth. A flaccid (relaxed) cock is by itself appealing, attractive and imaginative (just the thought of what it might feel like inside you). Once it begins to grow with anticipation, excitement and stimulation, the erection assumes a driving force all by itself. The pleasure potential is enormous - as is often the result with the anatomical instrument! 

Let's face it: once the penis is at the erection stage, there is really no question about size. It is labelled an "erection" because that's the only way to describe it! Hard and firm! 

Flaccid penises are wonderful and I don't believe that there are any of us who would deny this fact.

Often viewed as a special gift for bisexual and gay men that is "heaven sent!"

Erect and exposed? Who can turn their eyes away from that extraordinary picture? All I want to do when I see the above image is turn around and surrender my tantalized ass! 

Inside or outside, an erection offers us all a desire to take it inside us, either anally (fucking) or orally (sucking)! We aim to please the alpha-man (top-man) for all that he's worth!

An open invitation to take it in and make yourself a complete and total man! 

"Commando style" (wearing no underwear) makes no difference as it only focuses attention on the progress and final size of the erection we're facing!

Our concentrated desire is still on our potential partner's growing muscular erection and the erotic sensations that we'll derive from that penetration!

Plus the energetic and ecstatic we'll attain and experience when we welcome that masculine anatomical delivery inside our anxious and deserving buttocks!

As the beta-man, we simply need to remember to stretch our ass wide open and receive our well deserved and well earned reward: the enlarged manhood we humbly seek!

The above sentiment is a reminder that there is no shame in our sexual position!

Usually play the best and hardest!

Versatility matters, guys! Be cool!

Rashad Keith Cuffee

 

  

 

Ecstatic Bottom-Man!

Far too often, he's described as being in mortal pain!

However, as almost all of us proud bottom-men will confess:

"He's in ecstasy because he has a huge erection pounding  his ass!"

Versatility matters, guys! Be cool!

Rashad Keith Cuffee

 

Beaux Banks And Me!

 

Beaux Banks choke-hold fucked by Phoenix Fellington

By his own public disclosure, Beaux Banks proudly confirms that he is a virtually exclusive gay sexual 

bottom-man! That makes he and I both confident and proud to share similar roles in our gay sexual preference. We're two men committed to the same sexual dynamic and thrill - a hard, hot, huge and energetic erection thrusting inside our deep and willing anus (buttocks)!

Beaux: choke-hold #1

However, there are several differences in our sexual experiences. Beaux readily admits to being a sexual top-man only once in his entire life - back when he was an undergraduate in college. Whereas I was an exclusive same gender loving sexual top-man for the first 10 - 11 years of my life! Only when I entered my late twenties did I evolve in the sexual flip-flop from exclusive top-man to exclusive bottom-man! 

Beaux: choke-hold #2

We both have another similarity. Neither one of us has ever had the desire, dream, notion or opportunity to be sexually active with a person of the female gender. From early adolescence until the present, we've both known and understood our physical attraction to men. It was never a problem for Beaux. It was never a problem for me. Neither one of us has felt any guilt or shame over being same gender loving men! 

Beaux has only been intimately interactive with gay men. I, on the other hand, have been intimate with both bisexual and gay men. 

Beaux: choke-hold #3

Obviously, Beaux Banks has no issue with his partner's hands grasping his neck in a choke-hold grip. It isn't a major concern for me, personally. However, my all-time favorite sexual position is to be bottom-man-on-top! I'd rather "ride" my partner's erection and allow him deep inside me as possible! I like watching his facial expression when he ejaculates (cums) inside me!

Another similarity we both have in common is our interracial heritage. Beaux was raised by his adoptive parents and is a mixture of African-American, Asian and Caucasian. I am a of one Greek parent and one Nigerian parent. 

Versatility matters, guys! Be cool!

Rashad Keith Cuffee

 

Relaxation Rewards!

 

One of the often acclaimed benefits of analingus or rimming is the relaxed access to the sexual bottom-man's anus. The top-man gains entry and the bottom usually experiences only mild discomfort as he adjusts to the intrusion into his anus. This represents unlimited joy and satisfaction for both partners!  

Of course, the bottom-man enjoys the sensation of having his prostate massaged and stimulated by his top-man's thrusting and surging erection! This provides the enormous thrills that bottom-men receive from being fucked! Once that experience happened for me, I was a fully-converted exclusive bottom-man in order to relive that sensation as often as possible! 

Initially, I was very concerned about the size and length of the cock that was about to fuck me. However, the more experienced that I have achieved has taught me that both communication and the physical relaxation of my sphincter muscle (through analingus or rimming) has enhanced and allowed me almost concern-free status over any erection that wants to enter inside me!

The sexual act or fucking is beyond a doubt the absolute reward for analingus or rimming. The benefits are enjoyed by both the bottom-man as well as the top-man. Both are permitted to release their frustrations and tensions in performing the sexual joys and pleasures, irregardless of their sexual position. This reward makes all the effort to achieve it completely worthwhile!

Versatility matters, guys! Be cool!

Rashad Keith Cuffee

RIMMING-fication: Part 1

 

As porn-star Sean Xavier demonstrates above, the act of rimming or widely known as analingus is the act of orally pleasing the anus (entrance to the anal cavity). The stimulation offered is more than likely from the tongue, lips and mouth in order to relax the partner's sphincter muscles that expand to permit the insertion of the erect penis for sexual engagement. 

Rimming or analingus is not an exclusive sexual practice between same gender loving (bisexual or gay) men. It is also enjoyed and practiced by heterosexuals as well. Many people do incorrectly believe it to be an activity enjoyed only by queer (gay or bisexual) men. 

A blindfold isn't necessary for rimming. It is merely an accessory used by the bottom-man in this scenario solely for entertainment. 

Above, the bottom-man indicates his willingness to have his ass/buttocks serviced to relax him before he is to be fucked.

As he's wearing a blindfold (again, not a requirement), he hears someone approaches and orally encourages his top-man to come to him.

His top-man enters and surveys the scene on the bed. Perhaps this is their first sexual encounter together. 

Our top-man begins to make his presence and his needs known to our receptive and willing bottom-man. They commence their engagement foreplay. All attention given to our bottom-man's anatomy is most welcome!

The use of the hands in this foreplay is often misunderstood. It isn't an element of rimming, as that is limited to simply oral stimulation. The use of the hands (slapping) or fingers is better known as manual stimulation.  

Using his thumb, the top-man begins massaging/stimulating his bottom-man's buttocks crevice and his anal entrance. 

The above shows us the use of the mouth and tongue in caressing the back of the bottom-man. Keep in mind that these caresses may help him relax but it still is not analingus or rimming. 

The oral attention offered to the bottom-man's ass/buttocks is most definitely analingus or rimming. It is the stimulation given below that helps to "open-up" or relax the anal cavity. The top-man renders this service in order for his erection to ease into his bottom-man for the ultimate delight of them both! 

A man's tongue titillates the anal lip (opening) of a bottom-man's ass as that action alone sends the thrill throughout his body! This thrilling sensation greatly helps the bottom-man to relax his sphincter muscle which in turn significantly reduces the risk of pain and allows to top-man to comfortably insert his erect cock into the bottom-man's ass!

Versatility matters, guys! Be cool!

Rashad Keith Cuffee

 

Bottoms-Up! End of February, 2021

Bottoms-Up! End of February, 2021!

This is the second month for this new series here on Versatility Matters! A joyful and erotic feature in honor of the sensual and sexual satisfaction that we often achieve from access, either actual or visual, from man's buttocks! 

So it doesn't really make a lot of difference in how we enjoy another man's ass, it is worthy to note that we, as either bisexual or as gay men, derive unlimited pleasure in just servicing this area of anatomical eroticism!

Top-man or bottom-man is immaterial! We all admire and appreciate a delightful pair of buttocks! 

Versatility matters, guys! Be cool!

Rashad Keith Cuffee

 

 

Wrestling Fuckers!

Not only are both of these dudes "decked-out" in their respective wrestling onesies, they're also frantically enjoying their exploration of each other's bodies as they work their way towards a final resolution: who is having the most fun! 

As obvious in the above image, they may enjoy dressing in their wrestling garb but they have no problem in freeing their enlarged male muscles and frolicking au natural (naked or nude)!

We also need to keep in mind that wrestling is more than just a muscle-pumped sport. A very serious and strenuous tongue-lashing provides a very stimulating workout experience! 

For many men, the anal rimming (oral service) alone often espouses the discarding of the wrestling gear!

And encourages the man who's ass is being rimmed to in turn mount his opponents huge erection and "ride" him as long as the two can manage!

This never fails to empower the wrestler who was mounted to energetically and enthusiastically respond with endless thrusts inside the willing buttocks!

This typical response offers both wrestling sportsmen to enjoy not only one another but also their unique form of the ancient sport!

Often this leads them to having to take a "break" (respite) from their creative and unusual sexual endeavor and try a more traditional activity!

This employment of a more traditional sexual expression also provides unlimited opportunities for the wild abandonment of their belligerent attitudes and the inclusion of emotional and sexual freedom!

Which never fails to produce the ultimate goal of complete sexual pleasure and relief for them both!

No matter what, if any, delight we may gain from participating and/or spectating athletic events, we can rest assured that whenever such activities are jointly entered into by same gender loving men acting in harmony, there may be the the satisfaction of a total "job well done!"

Versatility matters, guys! Be cool!

Rashad Keith Cuffee