When I first became aware of my same gender attraction and what it meant, I was in middle school. I was also in a better position than the majority of my friends and peers. My oldest brother is also gay (same gender loving) and had "come out" to my brothers and my parents the previous summer. This offered me a very distinct advantage: access to gay porn entertainment!I soon learned of my elder brother's private collection of man-to-man sex VHS tapes during his return home for the summer holiday. He approached me asking if I had any concerns or questions about his being gay. I shared with him my own realization that I could possibly be the very same way. 
This gave him the chance to introduce me to his collection of pornography and helped to prepare me for my own personal journey into the "Porn-world!" I remember my "meeting" of the then gay adult superstar Bobby Blake and his cast of fellow pornstars (and bottom-men) such as J. C. Carter, and Ricky Parker - just to name a few - as well as numerous others. It also served in informing me of the two optional sex positions available to gay (same gender loving) men: bottom-man and top-man! This visual lesson proved itself invaluable to me both then and in the future! 
Immediately above, Bobby Blake is shown with one of his co-stars, Bam, another male top-man who is also bald and known for his own pride in his armpit hair! 
The above photo is one of J. C. Carter, a notorious bottom-man who enthusiastically submitted his buttocks for Bobby Blake's generous erection time and time again! J. C. Carter lived in Chicago and once, many years later, I had the honor of meeting him in person and not in front of a video-camera (although I would have no problem in affording him the chance to fuck my ass)! 
The above two illustrations are of an avid bottom-man. Ricky Parker! Another who gratefully gave his ass to Bobby Blake (and any other man with a willing erection)! Ricky Parker became known as a bottom-man who was energetic in his sexual appetite of having a man's manhood inside him! In my conversion from an exclusive top-man to a versatile bottom-man, I was able to recall Ricky Parker's endless role-model as a very early bottom-man advocate and employ some of his strategic movements in my own situation. Truth to the adage that we don't always forget early lessons in life! 
One of the discoveries that I made that first summer that my newly "out" older gay brother taught me through his collection of same gender loving pornography was the concept of rimming - eating out a bottom-man's ass - in order to prepare him for the entry of an erection. This ideal enables the bottom-man to relax his sphincter muscle so as to better receive the firm penis inside. Without this valuable lesson, I doubt that I would have enjoyed my success as a top-man when I initially became sexually active. The same lessons from my years viewing J. C. Carter and Ricky Parker as prime examples served me well when I later evolved from an exclusive top-man into my current role as a versatile bottom-man!Being introduced to male same gender loving films prior to my acknowledging that this was indeed me gave me some insight into the world of gay sexual practices. I no longer had to imagine how two or more men could be intimate and pleasing to one another. Having an older brother who had already "come out" of his closet and was patient and willing to answer any questions was a terrific incentive to pursue my own ambitions, desires and urgings!Thanks to all of you for your role-modeling the sex positions!Versatility matters, guys! Be cool!Rashad Keith Cuffee
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