Versatility Matters

Versatility Matters
Take it now, next time, give it back! This blog publishes here on Wednesdays and other days as necessary.

Tuesday, March 30, 2021

Bottoms-Up! End of March, 2021!

 


Today is the final day of March, 2021! The new season of Spring has arrived and our two men above are unable to contain the joy making their buttocks both dance and quiver with excitement! 


In honor of the new season our man above is rigorously applying lotion to his body in preparation for an upcoming bare nature hike in a local park. There's something relaxing about being completely "natural" in nature!  


For those who have to remain home and in bed today, what better way to show your affection and devotion to your man than by resting your head on his bare and very comfortable buttocks? Now that is what love is all about! 


Happy Bottoms-Up! Day: end of March, 2021!

Versatility matters, guys! Be cool!

Rashad Keith Cuffee









Saturday, March 27, 2021

Nipple Ring Madness!

 


During this coronavirus COVID-19 pandemic, all of us same gender loving men, are having to re-imagine and to re-think or social media strategies in order to meet new men and to expand our social circles. With our interactions currently on a limited capacity, I saw these .gif antics and thought they would be quite useful here.


A posting for social media of the attached actions may entice responses that perhaps many have never even considered! As can be noticed here, the stimulation that is apparent in our pierced nipples not only catches the attention of those viewing our massaging ourselves, but they also cause an awareness in the hardening of the viewer's cock and his own nipples as well!


 It isn't only just those who are watching our actions, from personal experience, I know firsthand that whenever I tease my own nipples, I usually arouse myself and my manhood! This is by no means an unsatisfactory experience, either! Often, it leads to continued massaging of other parts of my own anatomy!


So while the self-photography may inspire additional actions, during these days of "quarantine" the relief provided isn't unwelcome! Ideally, it can encourage other creative and inspiring gestures and strokes that increase our productivity!


 These may include connections that provide us with much more than what we ever hoped for or even imagined!


Which, in turn, can ensure us that "a good time was had by all!"

Versatility matters, guys! Be cool!

Rashad Keith Cuffee




Tuesday, March 23, 2021

Relaxation Rewards!

 


One of the often acclaimed benefits of analingus or rimming is the relaxed access to the sexual bottom-man's anus. The top-man gains entry and the bottom usually experiences only mild discomfort as he adjusts to the intrusion into his anus. This represents unlimited joy and satisfaction for both partners!  

Of course, the bottom-man enjoys the sensation of having his prostate massaged and stimulated by his top-man's thrusting and surging erection! This provides the enormous thrills that bottom-men receive from being fucked! Once that experience happened for me, I was a fully-converted exclusive bottom-man in order to relive that sensation as often as possible! 


Initially, I was very concerned about the size and length of the cock that was about to fuck me. However, the more experienced that I have achieved has taught me that both communication and the physical relaxation of my sphincter muscle (through analingus or rimming) has enhanced and allowed me almost concern-free status over any erection that wants to enter inside me!


The sexual act or fucking is beyond a doubt the absolute reward for analingus or rimming. The benefits are enjoyed by both the bottom-man as well as the top-man. Both are permitted to release their frustrations and tensions in performing the sexual joys and pleasures, irregardless of their sexual position. This reward makes all the effort to achieve it completely worthwhile!

Versatility matters, guys! Be cool!

Rashad Keith Cuffee











Saturday, March 20, 2021

"Going Down!"


"Going down" on your man, or any man, for that matter, is a colloquial term for lowering oneself and providing oral service (sucking) to another man's erect penis - or else give him an erection. Since men have been attracted to and having sex together, it is one of the "classic" methods of sexual fulfillment and gratification. Nor is it strictly limited to just between men. Women are known for "going down" on their man as well as one another, too! 


One of the reasons for the expression, "going down" is that the man who usually provides the oral servicing of his partner was more than likely to drop down to his knees in order to access his partner's cock inside his mouth. Thus, the origins of the practice of "going down" onto one's knees. Of course, we all know from experience that oral servicing another nowadays doesn't necessarily involve either partner lowering themselves whatsoever. 


As a matter of fact, nudity is no longer an assumption when oral servicing another man. More likely than not, simply exposing an erection is all that is sometimes performed. The mouth has the ability and the freedom to "do its thing" while the "sucker" is fully clothed - or not! 


As a matter of fact, orally sampling another manhood (cock, dick, johnson, penis) isn't limited to one "sampler!" If the man's anatomy is large enough, another may also enjoy the freedom of a healthy erection and taste the pleasure! 

Versatility matters, guys! Be cool!

Rashad Keith Cuffee















Tuesday, March 16, 2021

RIMMING-fication: Part 2

 


Rimming is also known as "eating ass" or "teasing buttocks" (among other terms). It is the process where a same gender loving (bisexual or gay) top-man uses his tongue to orally encourage his bottom-man to relax his anal cavity (anus) so that he can comfortably insert his raging erection! There are rewards for this service for both sexual partners! I am one man who can personally attest to the fact that bottom-men aren't the only men who enjoy being rimmed! I've personally performed this service on a countless number of my top-men before they even got their erections inside my willing ass! 


The process of anilingus or rimming doesn't necessarily have to take place in a bed or even on another piece of furniture. It's all open to wherever the participants are comfortable for it to happen. In the above example, both are standing with the man performing the action (usually the top-man) is on his knees while relaxing his partner's sphincter-muscle to ensure it welcomes his erection! 



The couple above like to simulate the bottom-man's sitting on the face of his partner while he inserts his tongue inside him and prepares for his erection's reception! 


And the preferred sexual roles of the two men involved aren't specific to their positions during the actual sexual act. The almost exclusive bottom-man, Dominic Santos (above) clearly demonstrates that bottom-men enjoy performing the anilingus strategy, too! He is obviously relaxing his partner's buttocks so that they can enjoy some reciprocity once the foreplay evolves into the actual sexual union (fucking)! Dominic is famous for his sexual proclivities! He is almost an exclusive bottom-man (like myself) and he has no qualms about openly acknowledging this aspect of himself!

Versatility matters, guys! Be Cool!

Rashad Keith Cuffee










Saturday, March 13, 2021

Nipple Playmates!

 


Some men find these scenarios unbelievable! They can't understand how two bisexual or gay men can enjoy any type of "nipple-action" whatsoever!



For me, personally, I find it almost impossible that two men have such difficulty in believing such nonsense! Haven't they ever had their nipples stimulated by another person, regardless of gender?

Versatility matters, guys! Be cool!

Rashad Keith Cuffee






Tuesday, March 9, 2021

RIMMING-fication: Part 1

 


As porn-star Sean Xavier demonstrates above, the act of rimming or widely known as analingus is the act of orally pleasing the anus (entrance to the anal cavity). The stimulation offered is more than likely from the tongue, lips and mouth in order to relax the partner's sphincter muscles that expand to permit the insertion of the erect penis for sexual engagement. 

Rimming or analingus is not an exclusive sexual practice between same gender loving (bisexual or gay) men. It is also enjoyed and practiced by heterosexuals as well. Many people do incorrectly believe it to be an activity enjoyed only by queer (gay or bisexual) men. 


A blindfold isn't necessary for rimming. It is merely an accessory used by the bottom-man in this scenario solely for entertainment. 


Above, the bottom-man indicates his willingness to have his ass/buttocks serviced to relax him before he is to be fucked.


As he's wearing a blindfold (again, not a requirement), he hears someone approaches and orally encourages his top-man to come to him.


His top-man enters and surveys the scene on the bed. Perhaps this is their first sexual encounter together. 


Our top-man begins to make his presence and his needs known to our receptive and willing bottom-man. They commence their engagement foreplay. All attention given to our bottom-man's anatomy is most welcome!

The use of the hands in this foreplay is often misunderstood. It isn't an element of rimming, as that is limited to simply oral stimulation. The use of the hands (slapping) or fingers is better known as manual stimulation.  


Using his thumb, the top-man begins massaging/stimulating his bottom-man's buttocks crevice and his anal entrance. 


The above shows us the use of the mouth and tongue in caressing the back of the bottom-man. Keep in mind that these caresses may help him relax but it still is not analingus or rimming. 


The oral attention offered to the bottom-man's ass/buttocks is most definitely analingus or rimming. It is the stimulation given below that helps to "open-up" or relax the anal cavity. The top-man renders this service in order for his erection to ease into his bottom-man for the ultimate delight of them both! 



A man's tongue titillates the anal lip (opening) of a bottom-man's ass as that action alone sends the thrill throughout his body! This thrilling sensation greatly helps the bottom-man to relax his sphincter muscle which in turn significantly reduces the risk of pain and allows to top-man to comfortably insert his erect cock into the bottom-man's ass!

Versatility matters, guys! Be cool!

Rashad Keith Cuffee









 










Saturday, March 6, 2021

Oral Satisfaction!

 


Oral satisfaction can, and often does, take on many forms depending on the tastes craved and enjoyed by the "beholder" (taster)! These vary from man to man and frequently differ within our same gender loving (bisexual and gay) community. Our taste buds aren't the only sensual source for gratification. The scent of another man is equally rewarding!


Some of us prefer the delightful and tasteful renderings of another man's penis (cock or dick) inside our mouth. It isn't the size of the erect (firm) manhood that matters but it most absolutely is the flavor that makes the effort worthwhile!



Some of us same gender loving men, myself included, derive particular pleasure and sensory enjoyment in orally servicing or being served while totally bare (naked or nude). The clothes freedom truly ignites the sensation of another man's skin in direct contact with mine - whether I'm sucking or am the one being sucked! 


And intense pleasure isn't always just limited to one man of a particular sexual position. In the bisexual and gay world, sucking the erection of another man gives equal gratification to both the man being sucked as well as the man engaged in sucking! It isn't exclusive to either a sexual top-man (the partner who fucks another man) or a sexual bottom-man (the partner who actually gets fucked)!  



Oral satisfaction also is enjoyed by both bottom-men and top-man outside the realm of penile involvement. A man's tongue can and does deliver an immense amount of happiness and thrills to another man's anal cavity - ass or buttocks! 



Once again, this isn't exclusive to either sexual position preference. Top-men find having their buttocks teased by a sexual partner just as erotic and enticing as bottom-men! And the man who's tantalizing the other derives pleasure and fulfillment from this exercise as well, no matter their sexual position!

Versatility matters, guys! Be cool!

Rashad Keith Cuffee